tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post878523992931743133..comments2023-07-08T12:05:41.243+04:00Comments on Reflections: To Blog or Not to BlogReflectionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comBlogger49125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-49879183001208236512009-03-05T21:40:00.000+04:002009-03-05T21:40:00.000+04:00roop: LOL I'm not sure forwarding this post is bes...roop: LOL I'm not sure forwarding this post is best option.<BR/><BR/>Anyways keep me posted.....I'm interested;-PReflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-60164317133757943942009-03-05T01:03:00.000+04:002009-03-05T01:03:00.000+04:00came here thru prashanti's blog and am forwarding ...came here thru prashanti's blog and am forwarding this to my husband. im goin thru somethin of the same. he is feeling neglected lately . :( <BR/>i dont know how but he is.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-14331108961787292602009-01-17T09:00:00.000+04:002009-01-17T09:00:00.000+04:00Enigma: Thank U for the valuble input. What U have...Enigma: Thank U for the valuble input. What U have written makes total sense...Thanks once again:-).Reflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-68105125802730295782009-01-13T10:42:00.000+04:002009-01-13T10:42:00.000+04:00hey blogging should make u feel guilty...its somet...hey blogging should make u feel guilty...its something u r good at...so dont stop wrting...try and find time onece kids go to school and hubby goes to work.....after all we all do need time for ourselves and we need our space...<BR/>Its a perfectly normal thing that u do something wat u r good at and wat makes u .U.....<BR/>I know many face this situation, i guess the main prob is coz they cant relate to our intrests and peoples tastes vary....so dont worry..try finding time for urself...children will grow up and b on their own soon and by then u will hav too much extra time on ur hands....keep at this and u wont end up being too bored also...Kelvyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15415167447463182568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-21140152382000307412009-01-08T08:25:00.000+04:002009-01-08T08:25:00.000+04:00Abraham Menacherry: Though it is a Brilliant idea,...Abraham Menacherry: Though it is a Brilliant idea, its not an option at all since our rozi roti doesnt come from the blog;-D.<BR/><BR/>Winnie: So am I...tho I'm not able to browse freely with my dial-up. Luckily my ADSL will be done in 2 days time.<BR/><BR/>Sansmerci: As I was telling Winnie here, my ADSL connection will be here in 2 days, so only till then:-D. Aaah so the wedding invite is already in huh.<BR/><BR/>Piper: And I replied to ur comment:-D....I understood immediately but worded it all wrong:-D. <BR/><BR/>Spontaneous Mini: U knw u are bang on target though ofcourse he'll never admit it;-D.<BR/>As for ur idea its worth a try though I feel he'll see thru it....u knw, sort of trying too hard:-P.<BR/>Thank U for sharing!!!!!!Reflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-38121121572548839012009-01-08T02:17:00.000+04:002009-01-08T02:17:00.000+04:00This is in response to the tubelight moment. I me...This is in response to the tubelight moment. <BR/>I meant some ppl have a preconceived idea of how everything “must” be arnd them “their world”. And forget that their world includes other living beings with valid feelings with “their worlds”. So we have to be accommodating. <BR/>Weekends, I go online but don’t blog. I have an idea for you. Why don’t you put on music online, you can keep asking him ques like if he likes this song, hero, dir., etc in-between mail checking/ brainstorming for blog(just don’t blog). This way he will feel inclusive.<BR/>Hey you don’t have to put this comment online if you dnt want to.Spontaneous Minihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00584909406217265962noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-52876815079053116822009-01-07T19:39:00.000+04:002009-01-07T19:39:00.000+04:00I replied to your comment. Its not a picture frame...I replied to your comment. Its not a picture frame! :) Its a window and the view beyond it, is for real!!!Piper ..https://www.blogger.com/profile/02315500028808314079noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-2196580816961266282009-01-07T16:44:00.000+04:002009-01-07T16:44:00.000+04:00do u try sansmerci.in? try it as undefinedoxymoron...do u try sansmerci.in? try it as undefinedoxymoron.blogspot.com it mite work.. yea u need to get into my page soon to chek out my invite :)sansmercihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16611930777294716832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-67458312139087085562009-01-07T00:57:00.000+04:002009-01-07T00:57:00.000+04:00Ah GPRS is no big deal :) call your mobile fone su...Ah GPRS is no big deal :) call your mobile fone supp professional.. they will help you out :)<BR/><BR/>@links... ah choose choose then I will give you the link to dl them!<BR/><BR/>Cant wait to see what you will choose!Winnie the poohihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11445691463105808647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-75940675179016973552009-01-06T19:16:00.000+04:002009-01-06T19:16:00.000+04:00divorce him and marry your blog..:Ddivorce him and marry your blog..:DAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09608967706733895867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-85449243775130041712009-01-06T16:03:00.000+04:002009-01-06T16:03:00.000+04:00Winnie: Yeah I'm getting it:-D...add GPRS huh...ye...Winnie: Yeah I'm getting it:-D...add GPRS huh...yeah go on gimme some more ideas...I need all the help I can get...but just remember I'm a 'bit' technologically backward:-P which ofcourse reminds me ....THANK U for the links, will go thru all of them first...infact now I'm in dilemma...as to which one...so many lovely choices:-(.<BR/>Once again THANKS a lot!!!!!<BR/><BR/>A: Ofcourse it has helped me...it has opened a whole new world out for me.<BR/>Life here in Dubai is dreary to say the least...blogging is one RAY of hope, joy, satisfaction.... for me, so I'm not going to let go without a good fight!!!!<BR/>...its worth fighting for, right:-P???<BR/><BR/>Spontaneous Mini: Welcome, Welcome...the more the merrier I say:-D<BR/>Thank U for the sound advice, most of it makes total sense but "And weekends mean no blog. period. thats an unwritten rule."<BR/>Thts a tough one:-(.<BR/>"Me thinks its just the way ppl perceive the world arnd them."<BR/>Can u just elaborate a bit...???When u know me better u'll realise that at the best of times I'm a bit of a tubelight:-P.Reflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-40236418776448486802009-01-06T15:23:00.000+04:002009-01-06T15:23:00.000+04:00Sukku: U r welcome .... that was a nice & poli...Sukku: U r welcome .... that was a nice & polite ...& safe comment.......????<BR/><BR/>Prasant Sree: I'd like to think my responsibilities are being met quite well barring an occasional absent-mindedness or two:-P. <BR/>I just dont understand why I cant blog while they are watching TV:-o. I mean, they r doing something they like so why cant I do something I love.<BR/>"its all about the choices you make, and understanding the consequence of those choices in your life.,. After all, its the little things in our lives, like spending time with our parents/kids which remain etched in our life for ever.,."<BR/>The above, I agree with totally!!!!!<BR/>And Thank U...ur input always clears the muddy waters:-D<BR/><BR/>Hatikvah: LOL:-D!!!!!<BR/>Thank U, ur point is noted, ur honour!<BR/>And Happy New Year to U too once again!!<BR/><BR/>Colours: Really....if I close my eyes I can just imagine u typing away:-D. <BR/>My BIL does tht....when he chats....whenever we pass tht area we cant help but stand & watch him clickity-clack with 4-5 people all at the same time:-D.<BR/><BR/>sansmerci: Congrats....this is gr8 news!!!<BR/>Oh dont get hecked up abt other people saying their stories. Ur life is wht u make it.<BR/>And I'm sorry I havent come to ur page to collect the award...I still cant get into ur page[my dial-up problem, hopefully it will be done by the end of this week]:-SReflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-60604849982864530262009-01-06T11:24:00.000+04:002009-01-06T11:24:00.000+04:00Although I have been a regular lurker but today I ...Although I have been a regular lurker but today I feel the need to dot my 2cents.<BR/>Nopes, I do not share your problem infact SH loves reading my blog. <BR/>My advice is that don't blog when your hubb is around. <BR/>The only time I sit with the laptop when SH is at home-<BR/>when he is online himself<BR/>when he is reading a book<BR/>when he is keeping busy arnd the house.<BR/>And weekends mean no blog. period. thats an unwritten rule.<BR/>I do chat, write emails or read blogs(sometimes) while talking to him/watching tv etc. <BR/><BR/>Me thinks its just the way ppl perceive the world arnd them.<BR/><BR/>Hope the New Year brings joy and fulfillment to you.Spontaneous Minihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00584909406217265962noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-18878918570633544502009-01-06T07:33:00.000+04:002009-01-06T07:33:00.000+04:00keep Blogging Pleaseeeee. Look at it as your 'me t...keep Blogging Pleaseeeee. Look at it as your 'me time'. we're all entitle to some of it right? <BR/>ask yourself; have you benefited from blogging in anyways. And if there is even one 'yes' then it's worth spending some time on it. Pace it out but pleaseeee be around. I'll miss you if you don't :(.Just call me 'A'https://www.blogger.com/profile/07437889798367894323noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-84567496336623420522009-01-05T23:11:00.000+04:002009-01-05T23:11:00.000+04:00one more!!http://nitelife-btemplates.blogspot.com/...one more!!<BR/><BR/>http://nitelife-btemplates.blogspot.com/Winnie the poohihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11445691463105808647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-74140568372180216262009-01-05T23:03:00.000+04:002009-01-05T23:03:00.000+04:00Uffo! I forgot what I came here for! A Feel Good N...Uffo! I forgot what I came here for! A Feel Good New Year Gift!!<BR/><BR/><A HREF="http://hive-simple-style-10-demo.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow"> here</A><BR/><BR/>And .. <A HREF="http://butterfly2-btemplates.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">here</A> and <BR/><A HREF="http://leitura-btemplates.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">here </A> and <BR/><A HREF="http://sea-btemplates.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">here</A> and still more <A HREF="http://my-illacrimo.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">here</A>and <BR/><A HREF="http://dark-sea-show.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">here</A><BR/><BR/>If you want more choices do let me know :DWinnie the poohihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11445691463105808647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-82746433905201948972009-01-05T22:49:00.000+04:002009-01-05T22:49:00.000+04:00Nancy you get your pocket money ?Add GPRS to your ...Nancy you get your pocket money ?<BR/><BR/>Add GPRS to your mobile ;) and check from there :D :DWinnie the poohihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11445691463105808647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-7493358108341188862009-01-05T22:21:00.000+04:002009-01-05T22:21:00.000+04:00MAN! i mite startfacin this situation soon... tht ...MAN! i mite startfacin this situation soon... tht mgettin married... u too! scarin me... like eveyrone else does! boooooooo<BR/><BR/>PS: plz don stop blogging i promise i ll come here more often even wen m busy with wedding prep :)sansmercihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16611930777294716832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-73592183473624998042009-01-05T21:44:00.000+04:002009-01-05T21:44:00.000+04:00Blogging too fast means I think something and then...Blogging too fast means I think something and then type it at furious pace without thinking at all about it without any care.. (about 75% of my posts are like that and he prefers the 25% of the others). Luckily like your husband my husband reads my blog only when I force him to sit and read.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-66115895623782594022009-01-05T20:38:00.000+04:002009-01-05T20:38:00.000+04:00Gee, I wish I could be of some help, but after 29 ...Gee, I wish I could be of some help, but after 29 well etched comments, the poor-little-single me has scarcely anything to add... I however would like to add that people who write well, should blog (read - You Should Blog :-))...Happy New Year (albeit belated)Hatikvahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06583366898516197495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-70060298099302121082009-01-05T19:30:00.000+04:002009-01-05T19:30:00.000+04:00Well Hi, I know how Blogging can be addictive. I c...Well Hi, <BR/><BR/>I know how Blogging can be addictive. I cant live without thinking about my blog for more than a day !! Its like it has become a part of my life !!<BR/><BR/>I havent yet really encountered this in my relationship, (Iam yet to have one ;) ), but what i can suggest is that You have to take priorities in your life.,.Yes, i agree that blogging could be gratifying sometimes,but, in case you have much better investments (from what i read, like teaching your kid some language, or spending time with them because they want you too), i would suggest Do it.,. I know the blogo-sphere would miss you a lot, but the tiny investment which you make in your child's life, will go a long way in empowering him/her.<BR/><BR/>Finally, its all about the choices you make, and understanding the consequence of those choices in your life.,. After all, its the little things in our lives, like spending time with our parents/kids which remain etched in our life for ever.,.<BR/><BR/>May t Force guide you !<BR/><BR/>P.S: And yes, i missed it. If you feel you could manage blogging along with your responsibilities(as a Mom,Worker etc ) , it would make a lot of people in bloggosphere so Happy (including me).,. ;)Prashant Sreehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07028728984318324067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-16010074875990285522009-01-05T17:28:00.000+04:002009-01-05T17:28:00.000+04:00Nancy all I can say is thanks for sharing...Nancy all I can say is thanks for sharing...Sukkuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12110183761614933822noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-88341624655692807902009-01-05T17:27:00.000+04:002009-01-05T17:27:00.000+04:00Piper: U knw I understand what u r talking about.....Piper: U knw I understand what u r talking about....I was online at the office with hardly any work to do on some days. I cd keep track on everything whether it was putting up a blog post, answering comments on my blog or putting up comments in other blogs or reading new blogs.....without anybody checking up on me:-D....aaaah those good old days!!!!!!!!!<BR/>I'm getting very good advice here from our blogger friends, I'm already feeling quite motivated, what abt u;-D?????<BR/><BR/>ISH: Oh nooo....I can understand. But dont give us all a shock like whether u'll ever get back to blogging...<BR/>Come on..air it out...makes u feel better....and whts more u get some good advice also:-D<BR/><BR/>Scribbler: Thank U!!! <BR/>Happy New Year to u too...just chked ur page yesterday...no new posts????Reflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-10308444605441016672009-01-05T17:01:00.000+04:002009-01-05T17:01:00.000+04:00Balvinder Singh: "So I had to rattle it out o...<B><BR/>Balvinder Singh: "So I had to rattle it out one day like a parrot, trying to extract a compliment for my blog."<BR/><BR/>LOL.....was just imagining tht:-D.<BR/>My sincere sympathies with u Sir since who better than I to understand the lack of moral support on our blogging efforts:-D.<BR/><BR/>Please feel free to read up all the comments from all our well wishers & feel motivated like I do:-)).<BR/><BR/>Sindhu: Well he is right in a way...coz even I blog maybe once a week & the rest of the week I'm opening up blogger to chk the comments;-P.<BR/>Ah well, atleast he reads urs:-))!!<BR/><BR/>Colours: I didnt dare put it in my resolutions list coz I know for sure I'll break it:-P. <BR/>And wht do u mean by "blog too fast"????<BR/><BR/>Deeplydip: I'm hoping he never reads this post....cant predict what the reaction cd be;-P.<BR/>And thanks for helping me out...I just think there is no harm in blogging while they r watching TV. I mean they r doing wht they like & I'm doing wht I love:-D<BR/><BR/>Winnie: LOL at ur family bugging u when u r on the phone...it used to be like tht for me too.<BR/>U knw, I do the actual blogging when they r away but it is the checking for comments & commenting which makes me login every few hrs & inturn causes problems;-P.<BR/><BR/></B>Reflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-7181262058439551342009-01-05T09:36:00.000+04:002009-01-05T09:36:00.000+04:00hi nancy...happy new year....i havent faced such a...hi nancy...happy new year....i havent faced such a situation at home but the solution to your problem is very simple....blog when hubby is not around :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com