tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post662324985985113968..comments2023-07-08T12:05:41.243+04:00Comments on Reflections: Judge ye not.....Reflectionshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comBlogger28125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-5909644565981358412008-10-20T06:15:00.000+04:002008-10-20T06:15:00.000+04:00:) :) :)I'd really have killed ;-):) :) :)I'd really have killed ;-)Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-56152638634774767492008-10-19T15:47:00.000+04:002008-10-19T15:47:00.000+04:00lan: how do u do it???? u always manage to write e...lan: how do u do it???? u always manage to write exactly what I want to hear:-DReflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-2818998839453222432008-10-18T20:30:00.000+04:002008-10-18T20:30:00.000+04:00nancy, you just grew up a little too late! this is...nancy, you just grew up a little too late! this is actually a good thing for it keeps you younger. i believe u r a caring and kind person and kudos to you for the well presented story and for actually telling it.lanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04363905658304872046noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-63140562434434856872008-10-18T09:35:00.000+04:002008-10-18T09:35:00.000+04:00prakhar: thanks...oh yes confessing does take some...prakhar: thanks...oh yes confessing does take some courage:-(.<BR/><BR/>sunshine: I think the very same:-o...*shudder, shudder*<BR/><BR/>onlooker: Yes u bet it did...writing down my failings did take some effort & will power:-(<BR/><BR/>shalom: "No judgements at all...."<BR/>aaaah we think alike:-D. Even I dont judge anybody for their actions coz I believe that there is somebody higher up who has the authority to do so & the power to deal with it. <BR/><BR/>ps: "I'd have killed you had you done something like that to me :)"<BR/>Seriously!!!! ur reaction kinda shocked me. I then thot wht i'll do to my kids if they did it to me....<BR/>ofcourse I wd have gotten mad & given them a dose so they will never think of doing it again(like my mom did:-D) but a strong reaction like KILL.....it wdnt even enter my mind.<BR/>And I didnt see any reason not to publish ur comment. Everybody has their own opinions...if I publish a post like this, I shd be prepared to see all kind of reactions:-P.<BR/>Once again congratulations for ur book!!! wishing u the very best life has to offer:-)Reflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-81854244206582392962008-10-17T06:27:00.000+04:002008-10-17T06:27:00.000+04:00This comment has been removed by the author.Preeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-36243084161205783212008-10-17T06:25:00.000+04:002008-10-17T06:25:00.000+04:00I read this post first then the previous one.I fel...I read this post first then the previous one.<BR/>I felt really bad for your mom. Poor thing makes such an effort to stay up with you all, despite being ready to doze off and what does she get in return?<BR/>Salt?<BR/>I'd have killed you had you done something like that to me :)<BR/>Ok relax--it was a long time back--but i do wonder how you would have felt had you been at the receiving end.<BR/>Sorry for being to darn honest,Nancy !!<BR/>Cheers<BR/>PreetiPreeti Shenoyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01626823872300694608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-78167257728712482472008-10-16T15:04:00.000+04:002008-10-16T15:04:00.000+04:00Hey, I've been told I make the same sort of fi...Hey, I've been told I make the same sort of first impression.....except I got "aloof" instead of "snooty" :) In fact, all of us, mom, dad, sis, hubby make similar first impressions. Only those who really know us well know the absolute craziness that's there beneath the reserve :D Actually, the craziness is kinda a khandaani trait, and one we're damn proud of!!! <BR/><BR/>My mom is still the kind of mom you describe urself to be (& though both her daughters are in their 20s, she would say that they act your daughters' ages :D :D) And when my time comes, I hope I am a mom like that too! <BR/><BR/>No judgements at all....this is ur blog, ur space & if u can't let the madness out in ur private space - blog or home - where else can you???Salomiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08390297289267521453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-70867534556443612592008-10-16T10:35:00.000+04:002008-10-16T10:35:00.000+04:00:) a great confessional post. i would think the fi...:) a great confessional post. i would think the first half of the post had to do with more soul bearing than the latter half! it takes guts to open up, and tell about your true self, the parts you dont relish much! great that you have a lovely circle of friends, but then again, its because you are the way you are! :) Wishing you many more lovely moments in Blogdom !Vaidegi Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06856736970037809165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-16092458600162429372008-10-15T05:29:00.000+04:002008-10-15T05:29:00.000+04:00haha i swear i do the same at times!!! how can ppl...haha i swear i do the same at times!!! how can ppl walk in late and <I>like</I> being the center of attraction!!! *shudder*Sunshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13891581237598657917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-83737122460274116292008-10-14T12:11:00.000+04:002008-10-14T12:11:00.000+04:00anjuli: glad u had a good laugh:-DNope didnt recei...anjuli: glad u had a good laugh:-D<BR/>Nope didnt receive it as yet..expecting anyday now:-D<BR/><BR/>wannabe: seriously when I think back now...it must have been a funny sight:-D. It didnt even occur to me to run away then. And my poor mom I think she was the one most surprised at the end of it.<BR/><BR/>deeplydip: Heehee maybe....just maybe I exaggerated a teeny bit. dont mistake me, i did get whacked 2-3 times but mayb I got carried away a bit while writing abt it;-D<BR/><BR/>sunshine: u too??? really??? u knw in such cases I wait for somebody else to come & then walk into the room behind tht person:-DReflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-65165385430087798252008-10-14T12:03:00.000+04:002008-10-14T12:03:00.000+04:00sansmerci: Hehe...u r just saying it to make me fe...sansmerci: Hehe...u r just saying it to make me feel better:-D.<BR/>And dont mention it....that part of ur post made a lot of sense to me.<BR/><BR/>abraham menacherry: Yeah even husband who knows me inside out said 19yrs:-D...yeah he was close.<BR/><BR/>ish: I must say...u have the knack of reading my post exactly how I wrote it OR it is just that u know how to compliment a person. I prefer to believe the former:-P<BR/><BR/>agnes: Thank U!!!! Yeah, I have to develop a thick skin tho I'm much better than before:-).<BR/><BR/>priyanka: Yeah I think even my mom surprised herself:-D. coz all the physical stuff stopped when I entered my teens. I guess the combination of disturbed sleep, unexpectedness of the joke & to top it being laughed upon just brot out the worst:-D.Reflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-53842825929977397852008-10-14T11:25:00.000+04:002008-10-14T11:25:00.000+04:00hahaha....terrible no no...but sure funny....nd da...hahaha....terrible no no...but sure funny....nd daring too :D<BR/><BR/>nd confessing takes some courage too :)Prakharhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00681341998932525381noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-48430477936936716592008-10-14T09:37:00.000+04:002008-10-14T09:37:00.000+04:00Winnie: All of u assumed tht I had to be around 11...Winnie: All of u assumed tht I had to be around 11 or 12 tht I felt a bit silly:-P<BR/><BR/>bins: oh yes my mom is hot-tempered...no doubts abt tht but she stopped taking the stick on us sisters when I entered my teens:-). <BR/><BR/>tulip: I'll take that as a compliment....Thank U:-)<BR/><BR/>renu: u always say things which make a lot of sense to me. Thank U:-)<BR/><BR/>goofy mumma: Here I was feeling so dumb to put up this post & u make it sound so normal:-PReflectionshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07306120391459083770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-20806318656576163232008-10-14T05:59:00.000+04:002008-10-14T05:59:00.000+04:00Lololol! Nancy don worry a bit! I would do the sam...Lololol! Nancy don worry a bit! I would do the same in a second today and im 22 as well! ;)<BR/><BR/>You are a wonderful person and I think everyone comes with some form of armour in front of people. Its only in the private spaces of our home that we can let go completely and be ourselves! So dun berate yourself for a truly normal thing to do! :)<BR/><BR/>P.S I hate to walk into a room with everyone staring at me as well! One of the reasons i have to reach early for any event! I cannot stand the multiple eyes staring at me when I walk in late!!Sunshinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13891581237598657917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-60087408119709944052008-10-14T00:06:00.000+04:002008-10-14T00:06:00.000+04:00lol!! I was thinking how can your mother beat you ...lol!! I was thinking how can your mother beat you so much if you were very young. You had to be old enough to be running around and handle the beating :)<BR/>No question of judging. This was really cute and naughty stuff :)DeeplyDiphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13557227877046522074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-41892885603656722402008-10-13T22:08:00.000+04:002008-10-13T22:08:00.000+04:00You are as cute as I always thought you were! :D I...You are as cute as I always thought you were! :D I can understand doing something like that at 22...I'm sure with the right company, I'd still love to be crazy and silly and childish!!! But getting whacked at 22..isa little too much! hee hee....WannabeWriterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05198918365894991582noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-16595534383613309742008-10-13T21:13:00.000+04:002008-10-13T21:13:00.000+04:00I'm laughing so hard!!! 12-22-42- hey you guys had...I'm laughing so hard!!! 12-22-42- hey you guys had fun it it was a great practical joke!!! <BR/><BR/>Love you all the more for this revelation. :)<BR/><BR/>Did you get my postcards yet? Let me know when you do!Anjulihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16563616683370799899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-47139266027569792412008-10-13T19:42:00.000+04:002008-10-13T19:42:00.000+04:00Well, I think everybody guessed 12 or 13, because ...Well, I think everybody guessed 12 or 13, because you said that your mom beat you. Its funny that your mom beat you when you were 22!!<BR/>There's nothing wrong in doing what you did at 13 or 22, it was just a practical joke.Priyankahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02667344885898519767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-44777084559155665612008-10-13T18:20:00.000+04:002008-10-13T18:20:00.000+04:00Oh, Nancy, this is the sweetest post ever. You're ...Oh, Nancy, this is the sweetest post ever. You're a wonderful girl, it totally comes through.<BR/><BR/>Don't worry about what the 7 or 8 people in the room think of you. You don't have to humor everyone. People who aren't engaged in worthwhile activities tend to spend their energy judging those who are.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-77021558584837199722008-10-13T18:02:00.000+04:002008-10-13T18:02:00.000+04:00that is such a sweet "aww" inducing post.. till on...that is such a sweet "aww" inducing post.. till one reaches the end.. LMAO <BR/>nancy!! tell me ur kidding.. 22?? okay.. sawrie, am kidding ofcourse.<BR/>its just that i left was away from home for many years by the time i was 22, and u know the treatment changes if one is away, else i am sure of getting the same reaction from mum if i did something like that.<BR/>but that said, we certainly judge u not.. but 22? muahaha :DI scribble herehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02329210605846554191noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-26623286015734873542008-10-13T17:08:00.000+04:002008-10-13T17:08:00.000+04:00Honest post! I guess everyone(unless they are a cl...Honest post! I guess everyone(unless they are a classic extrovert case) would suffer a degree of your symptoms.<BR/><BR/>Takes courage to write something like this, so hats off to you!<BR/><BR/>22...no it doesent sound terrible.. just childish. I was expecting something like 16-18 though.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09608967706733895867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-76827860149288721742008-10-13T16:19:00.000+04:002008-10-13T16:19:00.000+04:0022 is the rite age i think :D i thought 13 is a li...22 is the rite age i think :D i thought 13 is a lil juvenile .. so now i think good of u :P<BR/><BR/>hey btw thanks for the lil mention of me in ur post.. like u said .. these things make us feel gr8 in blogsphere!sansmercihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16611930777294716832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-90663322076472192452008-10-13T16:13:00.000+04:002008-10-13T16:13:00.000+04:00Wow! What a post, so endearing, so honest. Well I ...Wow! What a post, so endearing, so honest. Well I am happy to know you played the prank at 22, that shows that you still had the child in you alive at an age, when most others become, sedate and even boring adults. keep them coming I say!SDhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02680026705334224458noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-43125452766318954972008-10-13T16:01:00.000+04:002008-10-13T16:01:00.000+04:00No nancy, I can never think of u as a bad person:)...No nancy, I can never think of u as a bad person:)Sometimes i myself wonder that what Image I have made of every blogger friend, what will happen if by chance i ever meet them, for u the first word that come to my mind is nice and caring:)<BR/>and yeah never let the child die in u, its this feeling which makes the life so enjoyable:)Renuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18052079745061422542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10344499201350381.post-81971822566865390892008-10-13T14:38:00.000+04:002008-10-13T14:38:00.000+04:00oh gosh, i havent met anyone yet as incredible as ...oh gosh, i havent met anyone yet as incredible as u! u rock woman!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com